Episode 257: ‘Addiction and Affirmations’ (Dolan Wolf)

“How was your Breakfast. Have you tried the Flogging?” Leatherman, filmmaker and fisting aficionado Dolan Wolf visits a Kinky Brigadoon in the midwest, and has an twofold epiphany while being tortured: 1. a stern thrashing from a handsome man can be delightfully intense, and 2. it’s time to forgive his lover Simon’s meth-fueled attempt on his life. Their joyful reunion progresses to gifts, promises and a magical BDSM vacation where they make love and memories together, but only Simon can control his destiny. #DanceCard #Squelchies #PainPlay #Forgive #Imagine

CW: this story mentions trauma and relapse.

 

Song: ‘Crazy in Love’ (Sofia Karlberg)

 

About the Storyteller:

 

Dolan Wolf is a professional filmmaker who was born in a conservative town in England in the 70’s, grew up in the 80’s, got smacked in the mouth by the real world in the 90’s, then found leather and kink and has been using them to survive on this crazy planet ever since.

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Upcoming Workshops:

My new Sex and Storytelling workshop starts January 24th:

Here’s a video with more information (oh yeah - and a #BlooperReel):
Have you always wanted to share your own stories of Sex, Kink and Gender? Now’s the time! ’How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling’ is a 6 week Sex and Storytelling workshop. Work with Dixie and a small cohort of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The ‘Everything But’ Level for the curious but shy, and the ‘All the Way' level includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. Every workshop I taught in 2022 sold out, and this is the first time I’m offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course. 

Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy

 

‘Storytelling to get the Sex you Want’: I’ll be teaching this 2 hour workshop THIS  Sunday, January 8th  (11 AM - 1 PM PST). I can teach you how to turn a personal story into a proven way to break the ice, connect on dating sites, and engage with new people (and it’s a fun activity for friends to do together). The workshop is only $29, so invite a friend and spread the word! 

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On Friday January 27th, join us for the #ReidRoast: A Celebration of Reid Mihalko. Dixie is hosting a Story Toast (roasts are mean, toasts are kind and loving!) birthday celebration to honor our favorite sex edutainer, relationship coach, mentor, slut, and warmhearted human being. This event will be live in San Francisco and live-streamed to wherever you are. Tickets are at https://tinyurl.com/TheReidRoast

 

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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:

 

Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Live-streaming by Ty McKenzie and Rubeun Tan

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 

 

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