Bawdy Storytelling

Do you require scientific validation of your desire? Author, Speaker, Podcaster and Consent Advocate Jaclyn Friedman wants to study her orgasm, but she’s getting first date jitters. What is sexual concordance, and why is it so difficult for this overachiever to get it up when someone is studying their sex data? Plus Bawdy’s musical muse, Rachel Lark, performs a song she wrote especially for our Nerdgasm show. Lube up, cause knowledge has never been so arousing! #OrgasmDenial #IcebergClit #Fencesitter

Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large

About the storyteller:


Jaclyn Friedman is a writer, educator and activist, and creator of four books Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape (which was one of Publishers’ Weekly’s Top 100 Books of 2009), What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All, and her latest, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. 

Her podcast, also called Unscrewed, is paving new paths to sexual liberation, and was named one of the Best Sex Podcasts by both Marie Claire and Esquire. Learn more at

Song: ‘Flowers Fuck’ (Rachel Lark)

Learn more about her work at

Become a member of Lark’s Patreon at


Episode Links

Our next Bawdy Livestream will be this Saturday, April 17th at 7 PM PST. This time, our show features GirlyJuice blogger/Dildork’s podcast host Kate Sloan, standup comedian Jimmy Sorrentino, Award-winning storyteller Janelle Codianni and all new songs by Bawdy’s musical sidekick Jefferson Bergey. Bawdy’s live shows bring you phenomenal #stories #community #connection #DanceParty #Prizes and more

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Ready to tell your story, and change your life? I’m offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to help you find your story. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling?  No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate with calmness & clarity.

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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible


Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!

Direct download: Episode170_Jaclyn_Friedman_NEW.mp3
Category:Storytelling -- posted at: 4:18pm PDT