Episode 169 ’Cybersex Saga’ (Sinclair Sexsmith)

Ping! Did you type ‘I’m cummming’ with 17 0’s and 1’s? Queer butch writer Sinclair Sexsmith tells a nostalgic tale of growing up horny and isolated in Alaska - until they discover sex and kink (and one-handed typing) on the internet. A telnet chatroom and a long distance flight lead Sinclair to the IRL sexual experience they’ve been craving for so long … but is this handsome stranger who they appear to be? #DialUp #Nerdgasm #Mixtape

 

SINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. Find more of their work at sugarbutch.net. 

 

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D/s Playground doesn’t teach you how to be a dominant or a submissive, but rather offers tools, resources, texts, and experiments to explore your own relationship to dominance, submission, and authority exchange, so you can articulate your interests and explore your edges. After these explorations you will be better able to communicate what you’re looking for and desire — which greatly increases your chances of having it!

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Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large

Song: ‘Right here Waiting’ (Richard Marx)

 

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Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

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Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

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