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UPDATE: Victor Warring just lost everything he owns in the Oregon Wildfires, and he and his 2 cats are homeless.

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Are there enough towels in the Universe to sop up this much pleasure? Erotic Activist & anti-racism community educator Victor Warring used to believe that being a man was about the ‘doing’ until the met Vanessa. When she lays back on the bed and becomes his teacher, he learns to look, to wait, and to love her up. Oh my, what big paws you have! #Hubris #Trickle #Pleasurefied #Rebirth

What does Victor mean when he says he’s a Bonobo?

Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large

Song: ‘Across the Universe’ (Fiona Apple)


Bawdy is the Official Folsom Street Fair AfterParty for 2020, and it’s THIS Sunday, September 27th show (7 PM PDT/10 PM EDT). Tickets at

Performers include Amp the Pup, Alotta Boutté, Marla Renee Stewart, Justin Hall and Jefferson Bergey! Last year’s show was a sold out blast and our capacity is limited, so don’t delay. Join us for this legendary celebration of Kink Culture and Community!


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Patreon: New Patreon rewards are on the way! I just recorded an interview about Polyamory, Consent, and the Ethical Slut’s future with it’s notorious co-author Dossie Easton - and it’s for my Patreon supporters first. Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is my everything during COVID. When you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re ensuring that Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time means that the live events that once kept Bawdy Storytelling afloat are long gone. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue. 

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Bawdy is the Official Folsom Street Fair AfterParty for 2020, and it’ll be Livestreamed to you on Sunday, September 27th at 7 PM PDT/10 PM EDT. 

Performers include Amp the Pup, Alotta Boutté, Marla Renee Stewart, Justin Hall and Jefferson Bergey Tickets at


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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible


Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 

Direct download: Episode142_Victor_Warring.mp3
Category:Storytelling -- posted at: 10:18am PST