Bawdy Storytelling

When married gay man Brian Abascal leaves the almost-nonexistent kink scene in Boston for the vibrant leather scene in San Francisco, he finds himself presented with a sumptuous buffet of new experiences. But what if you don’t know what your kink *is* yet? Exploring the Bear dance parties of SOMA and the Dungeons of the Castro, Brian discovers that his new leather community comes with BDSM mentorship opportunities that will allow him to learn more about himself and what turns him on. Unfortunately, now it’s not just about what he wants - he’s discovered what he needs.


Song: ‘Suffer Well’ by Depeche Mode


Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour 

Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large 


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Ain’t nothin’ on Earth like a LIVE Bawdy Storytelling! Here’s what’s coming up:

(we tend to sell out, so get your tickets in advance/right now)


March 7th, 2019: Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘There’s a First Time for Everything’ (Seattle)


March 14th, 2019: Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘Didn’t See It Comin’ (San Francisco)


March 16-17th 2019 ‘Storytelling with Dixie’ Live Weekend Storytelling Retreat (San Francisco)

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May 11-12th 2019 ‘Storytelling with Dixie’ Live Weekend Storytelling Retreat (Seattle)

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Thank you to Team Bawdy:


Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia 

Sound Engineer: David Grosof 

Project Manager: Dana Hanna 

Archivist /Video: Joe Moore 

Direct download: Episode_63_Brian_Abascal.mp3
Category:Storytelling -- posted at: 6:49pm PDT