Fri, 17 February 2023
Are you surrounded by huge sex parties, tantra and kink events, sex science socials and orgies - though you don’t want any of it? Living in a sex-positive intentional community, Lila Donnolo (of Horizontal with Lila and IHeartRadio’s Positively Sex) has 24/7 access to whatever her heart desires, but she struggles with receiving pleasure. Yet after watching her housemate’s ‘sensation gangb*ng’, Lila realizes that luxuriating in touch and adoration feels edgy, so she asks for help and is instructed to create a menu of sensual human appetizers, salads, entrees and desserts and to invites friends and lovers. Is it selfish to bask, and to not rush to reciprocate? #HumanSlipNSlide #Laughter #DoodlePoll
Song: ‘Dopamine’ (BØrn)
About our Storyteller:
Lila Donnolo of Horizontal with Lila is an Intimacy Specialist, a Public Speaker, Writer, Actress, & Curator of Immersive events. As the daughter of an American psychologist & a Brazilian social worker, she’s been a student of human relationships for about as long as she’s been a human.
She’s had pillow talk with thousands of people (most of whom were not her lovers!), and 127 of those conversations are broadcast for the world to hear on her indie podcast horizontal with lila. She’s presented her intimacy frameworks as a TED Idea Search Latin America 2021 finalist, a Business of Fashion VOICES conference speaker, and a SXSW 2022 presenter. Putting her NYU Tisch Drama (Experimental Theatre Wing) BFA to use!
Positively Sex! her new podcast for iHeart Media (the #1 Podcast Network in All the Land!) began as a live interactive audio show & winner of Clubhouse’s Creator First Program. As a public speaker and creator of immersive events, she hosts happenings such as horizontal storytelling pajama parties, Femme Domme Kink Tasters, connection games, hot love talks & a sensual, intimate Valentine’s experience for everyone, regardless of relationship status, called 14 Rooms. Friends who met at one of these events are still dating, 5 years later!
Horizontal with Lila Podcast:
Positively Sex on IHeartRadio:
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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!
Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker
Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney
Live-streaming by Ty McKenzie and Rubeun Tan
Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith
Dixie’s Virtual Assistant is Roillan James
& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour
& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
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