Bawdy Storytelling

Getting naked can mean an unhindered flow of sexual energy between you and a partner, but what if you’re only comfortable if you cover up? Cartoonist Archie Bongiovanni discovered the term Genderqueer years ago, and finally, a beyond-the-binary signifier that fits their gender identity! That first dingy homemade binder made them feel better in their skin, but the responses to it from their hookups didn’t - until Archie meets Jock and Triple Leo Andy, and suddenly the binders are flying, and skin-on-skin feels oh so right. #QueerYourLimits #Trans #Negotiation #ItsABop


See Archie’s art at

Archie’s Books, Merch & more at


Song: ‘These Shoes’ (Skyler Bennett)

Thank you, Skyler!


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Event: Our First Outdoor, Fully Vaccinated Post Pandemic Bawdy was a Sold out Success!  The next live Bawdy Storytelling is happening on Saturday July 17th, 2021 (8-10 PM) in San Francisco. Only 2 more shows in the gorgeous outdoor Courtyard of the San Francisco Mint, so grab your tickets right away. 

Tickets (for Front Row Tables, Reserved Seating, General Admission & more) at

Not in San Francisco? This is a Hybrid show, so join us Live, on the Livestream.

Questions? Email

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Feeld: Are you single and searching for a dating app that actually encourages you to embrace your sexual side? Are you in a couple and looking to find that third? Then, you need to check out Feeld. Feeld is the alternative dating app for couples & singles. 
The app is inclusive to all, no matter your gender or orientation. When you join, you can choose to identify as over 20+ genders and sexualities. The New York Times wrote that Feeld’s options “put the Kinsey scale to shame.” Here’s some great news: You can download the Feeld app for free AND support the Bawdy Storytelling podcast by using this link:
Use our code/link to let them know you heard about em on the Bawdy podcast, & I’ll see you on Feeld!


Patreon: Wanna watch the Livestream replay of this past weekend’s first Live Bawdy in San Francisco? Want free Livestream tickets for our next Live show? We’re offering great rewards when you become a member of our Patreon. Our Hookup ($10/month) & up supporters receive free tickets to special events, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, you’ll be connected to other Bawdy fans, you can join the #ButtplugClub and so much more. Our Patreon has patron tiers like the Confidante, the Concierge & more. While other events have gone away out, Patreon (and you) are allowing us to continue to produce the podcast & livestreams - and to make Bawdy even better as we relaunch. Become a Member Now at


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(& Thank You in advance!)

Cameo/Custom Dixie video: Need the perfect gift? I’ve been having so much fun making customized videos for fans of Bawdy. Send your friends and lovers a custom ‘Cameo’ video from Dixie (with or without applause tiddies), it’s a great way to send love for a quarantine birthday, for Mother’s Day… For $69, you and I can have a short zoom call to tell me all about the recipient, and I’ll make you a custom video for their special day. Find out more by emailing #CustomVideo #Gift


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Ready to tell your story, and change your life? I’m offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to help you find your story. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling?  No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate with calmness & clarity.

Email me at for more info - we can book a short discovery call, I’m happy to answer any questions.


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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible


Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

Livestreaming by Rubeun Tan Web Streaming

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 

Direct download: Episode_180_Archie_Bongiovani.mp3
Category:Storytelling -- posted at: 10:30pm PDT